Foreigners Not Allowed
Posted by Cottontimer on 30 Aug 2008 | Tagged as: Thoughts
My career as a foreigner started at age 5 when my parents moved our family to the U.S. from Taiwan. I received my US citizenship in jr. high so from that time on I was no longer a foreigner until I left the U.S. again to live overseas with my husband in 1998. Now once again I am a foreigner and if some people had their way, I would be a second class citizen whose opinions didn’t count for squat.
Shouldn’t it be the opposite?
After all, foreigners have a perspective that combines their global experiences. In my case, I’ve lived in Taiwan, the United States, Japan, Vietnam, the United Kingdom, and now Singapore over the past 35+ years. Given what I’ve learned from all these places, my thoughts and opinions on what I encounter here in Singapore are unique.
I’m not saying that my opinions are so important that everyone should stop, listen, and take action. What I am saying is that my views on Singapore life aren’t any less relevant than a “fellow Singaporean.” What defines a Singaporean anyway? There are plenty of naturalized Singaporean citizens here who may or may not qualify as Singaporean in the eyes of those who were born and raised here. Popular Singapore blog, Mr. Wang Says So, proposes that “the hallmarks of a Singaporean are suffering and struggle.” My American six-year-old declared himself a Singaporean after living here just five short weeks. He rooted for the Singaporeans in the Olympics rather than the Americans!
No matter my nationality or ethnicity, I have the right to say what I think about life here on this small island. I’ve sung Singapore’s praises for many years and am grateful to have the chance to live here. But, just as there have been everywhere I’ve lived, there are irritating and weird people walking the streets (when they’d be better off staying at home) and I like telling you all about it here on my own personal blog.
Foreigner or not - I’m interested in your opinion.
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People outside of a culture can bring a valuable perspective to bear on a society. A “foreigner” will notice things that the native takes for granted, and perhaps has never even thought to question.
Hey Jay, How’ve you been? Thanks for the supportive comment.
Thanks for this entry. I was expecting a response from you but a full entry is a pleasant surprise:)
I fully support your opinion that this is your personal blog and you have the right to write about your views. I hesitated for a fully 15 mins before I wrote that comment as I know it would not go well with you. The ensuing comments in which others seem to get the idea that you were talking about Singaporeans made me really uncomfortable. My feelings then were like, I can complain all about my family members in front of my spouse but the moment my spouse starts to spout complains against them, he is in trouble. Your views are fine (no less important than any others in my opinion and that’s why I commented on it), just that it made me really uncomfortable. By the way, I am usually not so Nationalistic.
Foreigner or not, your views are your views and my views are my views. Hope you still welcome my last comment on your entry. Enjoy your stay here:)
Thanks, maybug. Of course I welcome your comment. I thought it over quite a bit and understand your point of view. Just don’t happen to agree with it that’s all.
It’s sort of like when people say, “If you don’t like it, why don’t you just leave?” I’m just sharing my daily encounters and it’s not at all a demonstration of my unhappiness with being in Singapore. Quite the contrary as a matter of fact.
Well, I for one love your bitchin’ so keep it up! Maybe cos I know all that bitchin’ is gender-, race-, country- and nationality-blind. You just say it the way you see it and I can’t find anything wrong with that.
The one thing I’ve been looking forward to since finding out you were leaving for Singapore is to hear your perspective on Singapore life, I told you that didn’t I?
So YES, I like you telling me all about your weird and interesting experiences in Singapore. Can’t wait for you to visit my country Malaysia! What a hoot it will be!
Lilian, I aim to please. har But then again, you aint’ no Singaporean either so of course you’d be on my side. The foreigners side!
you know..for whatever reason I always pictured you being from Singapore!!! I have to keep reminding myself you are Taiwanese born…
but yeah…. rock on, fellow foreigner!!
Smitha, Rock on, babe! I’m Taiwanese-born and if you and I ever get the chance to meet in person you’ll see what a California girl I really am.