Stop the Bullies
Posted by Cottontimer on 05 Apr 2008 | Tagged as: Relationships, Thoughts
This season’s UK Apprentice started last week and already I’m totally disgusted by the behavior of one of the contestants - Jenny Celerier. Her profile says:
…she has combined her maternal role with a successful sales career.
If her bullying behavior on this week’s show demonstrates her “maternal” side, I shudder to think how her 17-year-old son was raised. Check out the way she, acting as project manager, treats one of her fellow team members in this clip - Be quiet, I haven’t finished!
In Social Intelligence by Daniel Goleman, he writes about the damage insults can cause in boss-subordinate relationships:
In a relationship among peers, an affront can be challenged, an apology asked for. But when the insult comes from someone who holds all the power, subordinates (perhaps wisely) suppress their anger, responding with a resigned tolerance. But that very passivity–with the insult going unchallenged–tacitly confers permission to a superior to continue in that vein. [emphasis added]
I can sort of understand why the other team members didn’t stop the Tyrant Jenny from berating Lucinda further. Better to stay in “good” graces with Jenny than to risk being called into the boardroom. But by staying silent, they made it seem like Jenny’s bullying was acceptable. And it was NOT. Someone should have put a stop to Jenny’s outrageous treatment of her teammates. This time it was Lucinda, next time it will be one of them. No doubt about it. That is, unless someone manages to give Jenny what she deserves and boot her to the curb. There’s always next week!
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Sara was the only one who can be seen to be sticking up for Lucinda and not afraid to be called into the boardroom.
Did she? I can’t quite remember when that happened although it sounds vaguely familiar. I just remember her sitting silently next to Jenny in the car while she ragged on Lucinda. I could tell Sara was uncomfortable but she didn’t put an end to the bullying either!
If you are going to break someone down, it is your responsibility to build them back up. Failure to live up to that is malfeasance at worst.
mdmhvonpa, “Worst” is an apt word to describe this woman.
haven’t actually seen the apprentice, but i’ve been involved with the publication of a series of daniel goleman dialogues in which he discusses with leading thinkers the impact of emotional/social intelligence on a variety of fields. really worth a listen to. there are free samples available at http://www.morethansound.net
Hi Lewis, Thanks for the comment. I’ve actually visited your site before. Thanks!