Recognition
Posted by Cottontimer on 31 Mar 2008 | Tagged as: Motherhood, Parenting, Schooling, Stephen
Stephen has a 10-word spelling test every Tuesday. Here’s how we prepare:
- Saturday - Clarify pronunciation and copy each word twice.
- Sunday - Mock spelling test. For every word missed, write it again.
- Monday - Repeat mock spelling test.
- Tuesday - Re-read words before school.
Aside from the first time when Stephen refused to participate until word #6 because he thought the test was “stupid,” the boy has done well. He’s scored 10/10 on the rest except one and on that one he scored a 9/10. When he had a hissy fit over the one he missed, the TA told him to never mind about the test and just sit it out. The reverse psychology worked.
When she called out the next word, he said, “I know that one.”
“That’s nice, Stephen, but you don’t have to do it anymore if you don’t want to,” she replied. (heh The woman is goood.)
“But I know it! I’ll write it down,” obstinate boy continued the test without further complaints.
So our test prep clearly works. Problem is, he finds something to complain about every single stinking day that we practice spelling. After our last practice session, I said, “You are very lucky you have a mother to practice with you. What have you been getting on your spelling tests because you work so hard?”
“I get 10 out of 10.”
“What do you think other children get if they don’t have parents to practice their spelling with them?”
“Zero out of 10.”
SLAM DUNK! That’s recognition that was long past due.
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LOL, Take it while you can! The accolades are few and far between from here on out!
So I hear! hrmph
Hahahaha…that’s one appreciative little boy. And remember the “You cook the best food in the world” he lovingly said to you — while you microwaved M&S food for dinner? Now that’s blind love. ENJOY!
What do you mean blind? I’m not that hard to look at.
There are a lot of good parenting lessons in that one story… I’m taking notes!!!
SinP, One of the most frustrating things about parenting is that what works for one child won’t work for another. And sometimes nothing works at all!
“he finds something to complain about every single stinking day ”
Sounds like a break-down in the Employer/Employee paradigm … err. Wait. Never mind.
mdmhvonpa, Ha! Ha! Now I know what kind of employee you must be.
He has a spelling test already?? Isn’t he in kindergarten too?
Abigail, I was really surprised too when they started getting spelling tests a few months ago. He’s in Year 1 of the British school system and that’s supposed to be equivalent to Kindergarten but I don’t think it really is because they started full-time school last year.
I don’t go through spelling with my girl at all (since primary 2), preferring that she is independent in her studies. And no, she doesn’t score zeros either.
Hi Rachel,
Shhh. Let’s not tell my boy that.
To be quite honest, the words his group gets are more challenging than I would have ever expected. This week’s list included:
pleasant
present
aeroplane
programme