Phony Imposters
Posted by Cottontimer on 09 Feb 2008 | Tagged as: Thoughts
As I suspected, I don’t really have Imposter Syndrome. I may, however, occasionally pull the “self-styled imposter” act to fake humility and lower people’s expectations of me.
In short, the researchers concluded, many self-styled impostors are phony phonies: they adopt self-deprecation as a social strategy, consciously or not, and are secretly more confident than they let on.
…Dr. [Rory O'Brien] McElwee said that as a social strategy, projecting oneself as an impostor can lower expectations for a performance and take pressure off a person — as long as the self-deprecation doesn’t go too far. “It’s the difference between saying you got drunk before the SAT and actually doing it,” she said. “One provides a ready excuse, and the other is self-destructive.”
Come to think of it, I think all my classmates at Stanford were “phony phonies” some or most of the time.
And that’s today’s tip for success!
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I was just talking to two Stanford grads about how there was pressure to pretend you weren’t working hard at Stanford.
Yup. Unfortunately, quite a few of those poseurs were actually studying their butts off while saying they were partying while the rest of us were…. Uh. Never mind. LOL
When I visited Caltech as a pre-frosh, there was the same atmosphere. Those who put off studying until the last minute and still did stellar work were the most revered.
I saw that trait all the time back in school and was guilty of it myself. humility is a good trait
I always suspected you were secretly full of yourself.
Jul, Secretly? Probably not so much. HaHAhaAHa
Ditto for MIT grads… a bunch of “phony phonies”!!
As I say! Being a phony phony is the secret to success.
Even Jacob lie (and cheat) to get his brother’s (Esau) birth right as told in the Bible.
Now, this article is a thought.