Be Confident
Posted by Cottontimer on 06 Mar 2007 | Tagged as: Thoughts
Confidence. Good to have. Hard to maintain.
I came across these 7 tips to increase your confidence via Lifehacker and although they probably work, they’re too cheesy for me. Here are the 7 tips that work for me.
- Tell naysayers to go take a flying leap.
- Stand up straight.
- Squash any feelings of unease and step forward.
- Step out of your comfort zone again and again and again. You might not succeed the first time, but when you do, it will be a true triumph and give you the trampoline jump to go higher.
- Don’t be afraid to think you’re right. And you all know I’m always right.
- Demand what you deserve and more.
- Dress the part - a new handbag, fresh make-up, red jacket*, whatever snaps you in place.

*On the other hand, maybe a red jacket isn’t such a good idea.
The color red can affect how people function: Red means danger and commands us to stop in traffic. Researchers at the University of Rochester have now found that red also can keep us from performing our best on tests.
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I totally agree with your points!! I love number one. I think that not getting worried about what other people think of you is a key to confidence, and general happiness.
So funny that you say that about the red jacket. I was once applying for a job which was a real stretch for me, and I think the boss saw that. For my final interview, I bought a very lovely, very bold red suit. I’ve always thought that that suit really helped me get that job. It showed confidence. It showed that I was ready to step out. It brought attention to me. For years it was my lucky suit (when red was appropriate).
Too bad it doesn’t fit anymore!!!
Hi…I love your blog. It is so wonderfully layout and the stuff you have. And all the archive!! I hope to be where you are soon and it is tough catching up. Just got to keep on picking up tips from you.
Byeee…
Franco
Jill: Alright. You’ve convinced me! I hope that red jacket in the pic is available on Friday (spring collection) because I’m going for it!!
Franco: Thank you for the lovely comment!