2007 New Year’s Resolution
Posted by Cottontimer on 29 Dec 2006 | Tagged as: Me
Do you usually succeed at keeping your New Year’s resolutions? Professor Richard Wiseman at the University of Hertfordshire is conducting an online experiment to see how many people achieve their goals. He has people tell him their main resolution and has a readymade list that included:
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Lose weight
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Quit or cut down smoking
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Improve and existing relationship
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Drink less
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Be a better person
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Other (fill in the blank)
I chose “Other” and said my New Year’s resolution for 2007 was to have fewer negative thoughts about other people. To help me, Prof. Wiseman suggests creating achievable, “SMART” goals:
So how would I go about reducing the number of negative thoughts I have about other people? Should I wear a rubberband around my wrist and snap it everytime I think something bad? Should I get a big bag of beads and throw one into a jar when I am being negative about someone just to see how fast it fills up?
Oh, wait, I got it. I should find the nearest cave and become a hermit - no internet, no TV, no nothing. Just myself to blame. Or would negative thoughts about myself count too?
I have a feeling I’ll be reporting negative progress with my resolution when Prof. Wiseman emails me in a few weeks’ time.
FYI, the SMART goals guidelines in text.
Set SMART goals
Goal setting is vital to success. Focus on creating goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time based (SMART). For example, instead of thinking ?I need to lose three stone? or ?I want to find a new job?, focus on creating bite-sized, measurable goals for each week. You might aim to lose a pound in weight, or apply for one new job, each week. Map out the step-by-step mini-goals that will slowly but surely take you to where you want to be, make a note of them in a diary, and stick to the plan.
Hat tip: Bryan Appleyard
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/me express mails balm for Hsien’s poor rubber band destroyed wrists
Kerri: The rubber band already broke. Please also send more rubber bands. Thank you.
Here’s a variation: you could just throw the beads at the people you have negative thoughts about! (Just kidding!)
Seriously, though, you could change the way you think about the folks you have negative thoughts about. Like shifting the context. I recommend checking out this interactive presentation about the Landmark Forum at http://www.landmarkeducation.com/intro . That’s where I learned how to do this.
Have a wonderful New Year!
Benson
Sorry, I guess the intro’s not available now (they’re making some changes to it). The main web site is http://www.landmarkeducation.com .
Benson: Hi! So nice to see you here and happy new year! I’ll check out the site and hope it helps the grump within.