Please Keep Talking
Posted by Cottontimer on 04 Dec 2006 | Tagged as: Schooling, Stephen
Stephen’s home sick today with a nasty productive cough that starts up when he tries to talk, which is ALL THE TIME. The teachers love to tell me how much he talks at school.
One said:
He must be wonderful company when your husband’s not around. You can do your reading, and he’ll just keep on talking as long as you nod or say the occasional ‘uh huh.’
Another said:
I could make a cup of tea, put my feet up, and he could talk for all of England.
I was feeling a tiny bit embarrassed but actually more proud than anything else. Talking or oral language is considered a key foundation of literacy. From Raising Lifelong Learners by Lucy Calkins with Lydia Bellino:
…by the time our toddlers are of school age, we take their talk for granted. We have turned all our attention to their reading and writing, not realizing that talk is still the motor that propels their intellectual development. It is through talk that children learn to follow and tell stories, understand logical sequences, recognizing causes, anticipate consequences, explore options, and consider motives.
So instead of saying “please be quiet,” I am trying to given Stephen ample opportunity to talk, talk, talk, and talk some more. Much of the time it feels like he’s giving some sort of lecture or seminar! Hilarious. It also sounds like his teachers are rather tolerant of his chatterbox ways and we are truly grateful.
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Rumor has it that more than one of my son’s teachers enters the room by saying, “Ok now, ladies and Chris? It’s time to be quiet.”
We should be doing just fine on the whole literacy thing here, then. Nonstop talking at my house! (And, no, I don’t mean me.
) Bald Man LOVES that book series pictured there!
People always make comments about my daughters non-stop talking. They’ll say things like, “Well, no wonder your Mommy is so quiet, she doesn’t get a chance to speak!”
So when is the podcast coming?
My son used to talk non-stop when he was a toddler, unfortunately the teachers here in Singapore do not tolerate such ‘nonsense’. My son was constantly asked to “Shut up!”.
When he came home, he would talk non-stop to make up for the time he wasn’t allowed to. I rarely get a chance to speak.
Then suddenly, when he got to primary school, he talked less & less. My son has become a quiet boy. I do the talking most of the time now. I missed his yakking.
Lisa: How nice! Personalized attention.
Kerri: So a good Christmas present for you would be ear plugs. hehee
Local Girl: And so you blog….
kristina: lol I would love to learn how to do that and you could be one of my first guests!!
eastcoastlife: I guess it’s a cultural difference? Will be interesting to observe it firsthand when we move to Singapore in a few years time.