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	<title>Comments on: It&#8217;s OK to Make Enemies</title>
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		<title>By: Cottontimer</title>
		<link>http://www.cottontimer.com/2006/06/15/its-ok-to-make-enemies/comment-page-1/#comment-3005</link>
		<dc:creator>Cottontimer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jun 2006 18:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Jane&lt;/b&gt;: I can just imagine you fluttering your eyelashes when you typed that.  Hahhaa.  Us strong-willed, opinionated women will just have to live with the fact that we&#039;ll have enemies.  Boo to them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Jane</b>: I can just imagine you fluttering your eyelashes when you typed that.  Hahhaa.  Us strong-willed, opinionated women will just have to live with the fact that we&#8217;ll have enemies.  Boo to them!</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
		<link>http://www.cottontimer.com/2006/06/15/its-ok-to-make-enemies/comment-page-1/#comment-2967</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jun 2006 23:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yep i know exactly what and who you mean!

i still find it hard to admit that people can actually *dislike* sweet lil me and ain&#039;t that the truth :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yep i know exactly what and who you mean!</p>
<p>i still find it hard to admit that people can actually *dislike* sweet lil me and ain&#8217;t that the truth <img src='http://www.cottontimer.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Cottontimer</title>
		<link>http://www.cottontimer.com/2006/06/15/its-ok-to-make-enemies/comment-page-1/#comment-2923</link>
		<dc:creator>Cottontimer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 16:34:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;laurina&lt;/b&gt;:  Thanks, girl.

&lt;b&gt;river2sea72&lt;/b&gt;: I go back to my roots once in a while. ;)

&lt;b&gt;pei fen&lt;/b&gt;:  Drama Mama - that shall be my new tagline!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>laurina</b>:  Thanks, girl.</p>
<p><b>river2sea72</b>: I go back to my roots once in a while. <img src='http://www.cottontimer.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><b>pei fen</b>:  Drama Mama &#8211; that shall be my new tagline!</p>
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		<title>By: pei fen</title>
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		<dc:creator>pei fen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 05:33:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i just spent 15minutes reading through all that. all i can say is- oh man! drama mama!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i just spent 15minutes reading through all that. all i can say is- oh man! drama mama!</p>
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		<title>By: river2sea72</title>
		<link>http://www.cottontimer.com/2006/06/15/its-ok-to-make-enemies/comment-page-1/#comment-2897</link>
		<dc:creator>river2sea72</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 01:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow - that is LJ-esque drama!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow &#8211; that is LJ-esque drama!</p>
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		<title>By: laurina</title>
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		<dc:creator>laurina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 00:47:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i feel you, really. my ex-suitemate had the same sort of mentality. it&#039;s unfortunate that some people have this hard-lined mentality.  but as a friend once told me, people make mistakes, and sometimes, all we can do is accept it and move on. of course, i was upset for a long time too, so i feel you--</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i feel you, really. my ex-suitemate had the same sort of mentality. it&#8217;s unfortunate that some people have this hard-lined mentality.  but as a friend once told me, people make mistakes, and sometimes, all we can do is accept it and move on. of course, i was upset for a long time too, so i feel you&#8211;</p>
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		<title>By: Cottontimer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cottontimer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 23:02:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Kerri&lt;/b&gt;: Thanks.  Unfortunately, I totally let it sap up all my time and energy today.  It was fun in a twisted way, though.  hehee</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Kerri</b>: Thanks.  Unfortunately, I totally let it sap up all my time and energy today.  It was fun in a twisted way, though.  hehee</p>
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		<title>By: Kerri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kerri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 15:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.  That&#039;s a tough one, Hsien!  I&#039;m proud of you for standing up for yourself.  I think, especially as moms (but, obviously not limited to), there is only so much time and energy (physical, emotional, spiritual) that we have to give each day.  And taking some if it from the ones we love and care about, and giving it to others who are absolutely determined to be against us and to be a negative source in our lives, can make for some miserable mommies and families!  And (not that he&#039;s aware of it yet, but he&#039;ll continue to see it in you as he grows), you are being a good example to Stephen of what you do or don&#039;t have to subject yourself to. 

Who knew the growing pains would follow us into adulthood?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  That&#8217;s a tough one, Hsien!  I&#8217;m proud of you for standing up for yourself.  I think, especially as moms (but, obviously not limited to), there is only so much time and energy (physical, emotional, spiritual) that we have to give each day.  And taking some if it from the ones we love and care about, and giving it to others who are absolutely determined to be against us and to be a negative source in our lives, can make for some miserable mommies and families!  And (not that he&#8217;s aware of it yet, but he&#8217;ll continue to see it in you as he grows), you are being a good example to Stephen of what you do or don&#8217;t have to subject yourself to. </p>
<p>Who knew the growing pains would follow us into adulthood?</p>
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