A Busybody’s Burden
Posted by Cottontimer on 30 Nov 2005 | Tagged as: Blogging, Me, Our World, Thoughts
My blogging energy is running low this week because of the tension and anticipation accompanying the move of my About Weblogs blogs to b5media. I’m stressed even though I can’t do anything more than refresh the screen once every two minutes to see if the blogs are set-up in their new homes. Shai and the other technical folks are doing it all from importing content to template design and installation. The rest of us bloggers are just holding our breath and keeping our fingers crossed.
For a busybody like me, it’s hard to stand aside and watch others do the work. If I could keep myself busy doing something to help, I’d probably be hyped up by the adrenaline instead of worn down by the waiting. I’ve been this way as early as grade school. For instance, during school concerts, I’d strut around trying to look busy and important to push aside my nervous feelings.
Whenever I can do something to help, I do it. I open strollers for struggling mothers, hold the elevator doors for delivery people, and ask crying women (haven’t met a crying man yet) if they’re ok. Some people might think I’m an annoying busybody in which case I apologize. But I genuinely want to help and have no ulterior motives.
I believe society would be a safer and more pleasant place if we looked out for one another. Not in a meddling, nosy kind of way, but with the small things that help ease our passage through the day. In fact, blogging is one of my small contributions to a better world.
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Hi,
I’ve read your blog for a while now and I wanted to comment. I agree with you that your blogging activity is an extension of your desire to assist people (at least it seems that way!). I hope you continue! I don’t have children so not all of your blogs even apply to me, so I am not saying this out of selfishness. However, I do think that intelligent, educated, thoughtful and enthusiastic people like you, who are willing to donate their time to sharing and bettering the world, should be congratulated.
I would not necessarily agree that ALL blogging betters society, but I think YOUR blogging (all of it!) definitely does.
Thank you!
Em
emma: Thank you so much for your kind comment! You’ve totally made my ENTIRE WEEK. Hope I’ll hear from you again.
How wonderful that you are in this world.
Quyen: And how wonderful that YOU are in this world.
it’s easier to receive help than to be the one offering help.
kudos to u!
I know your woe … I’m certainly a hands-on type of guy too and to have something done without my understanding (well, except surgery) is frustrating beyond pale.
Little acts of chivalry make the world so much nicer. I’m glad there are some bastions of resistance against the impersonal, impatient, abrupt and rude people.
Door-holders of the World, Unite! hehe. and pray we don’t get slapped for doing so…
laurina: You’d think it would be easier to receive help but some always question the helper’s motives.
mdmhvonpa: I like to be awake during surgery….
qadira: I must admit to being impatient and abrupt sometimes. But I really really try not to be!
“I like to be awake during surgery…. ”
What, with all the ripping and tearing and pointing and laughing … no, put me under and only shave the parts that need to be -plz - thnx.
“Not in a meddling, nosy kind of way, but with the small things that help ease our passage through the day…” isn’t this going to be a better world if this was the case?
nice!
justice: We can only dream!
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